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Flower Girl Dancing

Photo by: Johnny Joo

When wedding planning, one of the biggest questions that will come up, mostly from others, will be “Are you having kids at the wedding?”.  Let’s break it down this way, you’re going to fit into one of these two types of people:

ONEAh, the squeals and cries of delight as a child is twirled around the dance floor.  That totally makes me smile.

TWOIf one more kid trips on my dress on this dance floor, or cries one more time, my head is going to explode.  This is why I didn’t want kids at the wedding.

If you fall under group number ONE, please continue reading.  If you fall under group number TWO, please stop reading and refer to my blog on how to properly tell your guests your wedding is adult only.  The current wedding planning blog you are reading is not for you.





So now that I know I have the attention of the right couples, let’s move forward.  While wedding planning, you have decided to have kids in attendance.  Awesome.  But you also know like most people do, that kids have the attention span of a gnat.  (I am a mother myself so I can say that.)  What do you do to ensure that they have a fun time, but so do their parents?  You make them feel special and give them something to do.

Here is my list of things that you could do for the kids attending your wedding, be it your own child or someone else’s.

1. You plan to use bubbles for your exit of the ceremony venue, or maybe as part of your grand exit, what better way to treat the kids right then by getting them bubble guns.  Young kids already have a hard time blowing bubbles, and bubble solution is like a magnet to dress clothing on anyone under the age of 18 (or over for that matter).  So contain the solution and make it easier for them.  BONUS POINTS if you get the ones that light up.

2.  If they are your children or close to you, have them help with the ceremony.  Be it as an assistant usher, or a reading/poem.  Just including them in the wedding ceremony gives them something to look forward to.  That means they pay more attention, not always, but it helps.  Just remember that it will not go perfectly and you must have patience.

Ring Bearer Dancing

Photo by: Johnny Joo

3.  Have an activity table set off to the side for just the kids.  Fill it full of crafts, coloring books, toys and puzzles.  Things that will keep them coming back for more.  TIP:  When it comes to the crafts ALWAYS use self adhesive items, never glue.  And NEVER small items that suck to clean up like glitter.  You think bubble solution is bad, wait till little Bobby shows his mom his newly decorated tie with Elmers and glitter.

4.  Don’t have room for a table?  That’s ok.  As you are shopping for your wedding items, keep an eye out for fun things they can do individually at their seat.  Then you create a little box or bag that they can have at their table and play with in their seat.


5.  If you have the space at your venue, have a separate room for the kids to disappear to.  Fill it with fun, games and a movie.  More importantly, have a babysitter that will be in the room so that parents won’t have to worry.  It keeps them entertained and their parents can still kind of get a night off.

6.  Desserts.  What kid doesn’t love desserts, or more importantly frosting?  I know my daughter could care less about the cake, all she wants is the frosting.  So make it fun for the kids.  Have an area set up when they can decorate their own cupcake.  In fact, make your entire cupcake bar a DIY station and then all of your wedding guests can have some fun.  In fact there is a company that does this for you.  Their name is Crave Custom Wedding Cakes, and they do all the decorating, but your guests pick it all out.  TIP:  If you make the bar yourself, put down a drop cloth – tape down the edges if necessary.  It will make cleanup a lot easier on you or the staff you hired.

7.  Here’s something that will serve multiple purposes:  a favor and entertainment for your guests.  What I’m talking about is a photobooth.  There are so many different kinds out there now that they can fit within anyone’s budget.  Keep it simple with some DIY or go all out and get a Mirror Me Photobooth.  Wedding guests of all ages will appreciate the fun this can bring to your event.  Plus, with everyone getting a print of their images, that covers your favors as well.

8.  You’re more than likely going to have a wedding toast done.  Maybe by a wedding party member, or a family member, either way it’s pretty much going to happen.  So instead of having the kids toast with their soda or water, give them something fun:  Milk and cookies.  Honestly, just give everyone milk and cookies.  I like champagne, don’t get me wrong, but milk and cookies is so different and so fun, and who doesn’t like milk and cookies?!

two little girls at candy bar

Photo by: Blask Media

9.  Is your wedding outdoors?  I know it’s not often in Ohio that we get amazing weather, but if you plan it right, you can have a lot of fun planning an outdoor wedding.  Make sure while you’re choosing between wedding cakes and linens, that you fit into your budget something for yard games.  Again, not only is this for the kids but for the adults as well.  TIP:  Get a bounce house.  They’re cheap to rent and have a huge impact and if you get a big enough one, adults can jump too.  In fact, scrap you’re whole vision and just do a carnival themed wedding and then give me a call so that I can be your wedding planner.  I am so in!

10.  Your bouquet toss.  Kinda fun and also kinda archaic.  I remember being a single lady at a wedding and being pushed onto the floor to catch the bouquet, and frankly I found it embarrassing.  It has honestly started to become a very old tradition, and not always done anymore.  All that aside, whether you decide to through a bouquet or not, you should throw a candy bouquet for the kids.  It’s like the wedding version of a pinata.

11.  MY FAVORITE:  Set up a photo scavenger hunt for the kids.  Place a card at their seat and on it list items they must find at the wedding.  There’s two ways to capture the images.  If they have a phone, they can use that and have their parents send them to you.  Or you could have disposable cameras.  Now frankly, disposable cameras are so old fashioned and I never recommend couples put them on tables like they used to.  All you get is horrible pictures with maybe 10 good ones and the rest was a waste of money.  BUT for this instance I think they are very kid friendly for use and worth it.  But again, if they have their own phones then you can save that money.  On the list should be pictures that you want of your wedding day.  Things like: a couple dancing, your dinner, someone wearing blue, someone toasting, etc.  It’s kind of fun to see what the kids capture and it’s always from their perspective.  It really can get you some fun pictures too.

Hopefully that gives you a few ideas as to what you can provide for your little guests at your wedding day.  As a wedding planner, I say thank you for doing everything you can to help keep the children from destroying items you have rented.  As a parent, thank you for giving me my sanity for the evening.

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